Life is Not a Problem to be Solved but a Game to be Played!!! Self Confidence and Self Esteem

Everyone should be self esteemed as accepting yourself what you are in reality but with this everyone should also have self confidence with self esteem with which you can say that you can face any problem in front pf you, you can do that.

But there are many people also who have a confidence like they say that they can do what they didn't know that is they really can do. For example if you know swimming and someone say you that swim in fast flowing river, then you will do that. So this is a over confidence and it wouldn't be have in anyone. This is like when you achieve your goal then you will get confidence and when you can any problem then again you lose your confidence.

You should have a self confidence and self esteem like which always increase. Make your life a game, don't be to serious about it, life is not a problem to be solved, life is a game to be played. Now what happened in a game, there is a rule of every game and in every game you have to follow that rules. If you not follow the rules in game then you also know that you are cheating and even this if you will win, there is no meaning of that victory but if you follow all the rules and you will win then you knew how much efforts you do for victory and this increases your self esteem. This means that self esteem in yourself can only be increased by if you follow all the rules of your life. Now in any game how confidence increases??? There is a game and you didn't know that how to play, then some people say, yes they can play, so this is over confidence but if you say that you can learn it then it is your confidence. In field there are two pillars and if you understand that then your performance will better automatically, one is passion which is you want to do that, you are not doing that forcefully, when you play game not to win but you play for playing it then it is your passion, your passion should be understand your life, understand that what you can do. Second is practice, the real meaning of confidence is practice your life and that practice should be of right side not of wrong side means observing that who achieved many things before you and practice that what that person did. In starting of the game of your life you have to learn from someone and that learning should be from right side and you also have to practice it with which your confidence will increase. Third is persistence, like if you are going in right direction whether you reached to your goal or not you should have patience with which you can also increase you confidence and you patience should be with your practice and with this you can achieve your goal.

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